repeat after me:
- virginity is a social construct
- you don’t lose your virginity
- there’s nothing valuable or precious about virginity, it’s an imaginary concept
- virginity is inherently heterocentric
- your worth is not defined by whether or not you’ve had a dick inside you
- what you define as sex is up to you, you get to decide how many people you’ve had sex with
- the end
1. Cut your hair every now and then. Fresh starts are always nicer than you think. Who needs split ends anyways.
2. Pick a song you really like. Listen to that song a lot. And I mean a lot. Dance around your room naked to that song, beat the song lifeless till it annoys the hell out of you. Then pick a new song and go through the same process. We all need to really hear music, we need to understand what the song we are listening to is really about.
3. Paint your toes black, make it as perfect as possible. Then, scratch it off. Remember nothing is permanent.
4. Go on a run with your dog. Try to race him and beat him. Realize you can out run many things. Then go back and pet your dog, realize that some things you need to go back for.
5. Decorate a plain backpack. Glue on sparkles, glitter, diamonds, newspaper and magazine clippings, lace & ribbon, anything else that may fancy you. Remember, you don’t have to be the same person you were a minute ago.
6. Buy some pretty lights and string them up in your room. Turn off all the lights except for one when you go to bed. Remember it isn’t always dark and lonely. Change your perspective.
7. Lay outside one night. Breathe in breathe out. Accept that you are only one person and cannot do everything at one time. You can take your time. The creator of the stars you’re looking up at did not do it all in one day. Pace yourself.
8. Get up every morning and stand in front of the mirror. Naked, fully clothed, backwards, upside down, who cares how, just do it. Observe yourself. Notice the wrinkles under your eyes from laughing a lot. Count your freckles. Admire your ass. Then name 3 things you love about yourself. You need to love yourself.Tips from Blossite on how to be okay with yourself. (via blossite)
Reblogging my reblog because everyone needs this kinda advice in life.
My entire blog revolves around two posts ive posted….
One, being a Silverstein gif with lyrics that has over 500 notes and two, a La Dispute gif with lyrics that has almost 2k notes….
Like, im not even interesting enough to get notes on things I find interesting but the moment I post something music related its all about the reblogs and shit.
Goes to show how miniscule I am in this world haha.
That awkward moment when you’re doing laundry at a laundromat and you go to throw clothes in the dryer and accidentally fwap someone with a pant leg hahaha
It’s kind of funny that my dad thinks seeing a counselor once is considered as “getting help”. Like, no….one session isn’t going to take all these urges and thoughts away magically…this shit takes months and with support on both sides….not a dick ass father who has never supported me in anything.
I cant wait to move out.